The rulesthree of them
Stay. Blow. Show.
- Stay with your adult. If you get separated, stay where you are, in the open, and let the adults come to you. Moving makes you harder to find.
- Blow the whistle. Three blasts, a pause, three more. The whistle is louder than a shout and works when a voice is gone. It is in the buckle on your chest and on the lanyard in the lid.
- Show the card. The card in the window has your name, our number and a photo of us. Show it to a police officer, a firefighter, or a grown-up with children, and ask them to call the number.
- Say the rules back to me. Now say them with the lights off.
The gameten minutes
Find it in the dark
- Lights off, curtains shut. 'Find the torch.' The lid pocket, every time. Put it on. Now the whistle. Now the foil blanket, in the grey pouch. Make it a race against the stopwatch and let them win.
- 'Which pouch is water?' Olive. 'Which is plasters?' Green. The colours are the same in every bag in the house, so they learn once.
- Let them put the comfort toy in its pouch themselves, and write their name on the wristband. It's their bag now.
- Pack it with them, not for them. A child who packed the bag knows what's in it.
Never
Never frighten a child into the bag. The language is 'if the lights go out' and 'if we have to go to Grandma's in a hurry', not disaster. Confidence is the thing you are packing.
Every sixmonths
When the clocks change
- Check the torch and swap the glow sticks. Update the number on the wristband if it changed, and the photo if the child has grown out of it.
- Play the game again, lights off. It takes five minutes the second time.
- Walk the route to the meeting point together and let them lead. Then let them tell the next adult what the bag is for.
- Older children can learn the family's out-of-area contact number by heart. Make it the one number they know.
Sources, checked November 2026